Family movies often involve both rituals
and stereotypes. Typically the
women/females are portrayed in “traditional” female roles, i.e. cleaning,
cooking, child-rearing, etc., even though they may also have a career outside
the home and men are often portrayed as the main bread winner/head of the
household. Many family oriented rituals
are also included such as weddings, baby showers, family dinners and holiday
celebrations.
Stereotypical roles can be seen in
the annual holiday classic, It’s A
Wonderful Life. I have a ritual of
watching this movie as I set up the Christmas tree every year. Jimmy Stewart portrays a man who is the
eldest of his family. He sacrifices his
dreams for love and assuming responsibility of the family business as his
brother goes off to war. He is a good
man who strives to do good things, the “right” things by others without a thought
to himself. Of course there is an evil
competitor who strives to undermine him and just as he is feeling overwhelmed,
a guardian angel appears to remind him how empty his life might have been had
he made different choices. His wife,
Mary, is shown as being loving, supportive and taking care of the home and
children. She appears to suffer no
depression, of course, as she is fulfilled in her role. One is also led to believe that you should
count your blessings and continue to have faith because you shall reap the
rewards of sacrifice and good deeds. The
movie ends with all those he individuals he helped pitching in to help him and
saving him and his family in their hour of need by repaying his kindness and
helping him to defeat his nemesis with their monetary gifts on Christmas, the
most sacred of holidays.
Truly little has changed in the
expectations of roles of gender in society.
Women are still portrayed as being expected to be the caregivers at home
and in the relationships in spite of the fact many also hold jobs outside the
home. Men are still often portrayed as
the head of the household and the patriarchs of the family with limited
household responsibilities and limited expectations in regard to
child-rearing. Dads help their sons out
with sports but daughters are taken care of by their mothers for the most
part. Holidays are pretty much
celebrated as they have always been with
the mothers doing the cooking, cleaning and preparation and the fathers
carving the Christmas ham or Thanksgiving turkey. There are exceptions, but at this point in
time they are few in number and need to continue to be improved on.
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